Ways to Discipline Ungrateful Children
Almost every child goes through an ungrateful stage (or stages) during childhood. It’s just a part of life. The good news is that when it comes to disciplining these children, it CAN be done. Better yet, it’s probably easier than you think.
Here are several strategies to consider.
Point Out the Ungrateful Attitude
Remember that young children especially, don’t realize that they’re being ungrateful. Point the issue out to them. Once your child has been properly disciplined, talk about some things to be grateful for.
Explain that not everyone is lucky enough to have these things and that it’s not right to take them for granted. Expand on the subject every now and then, just as a gentle reminder.
Make a Deal
Don’t beat yourself up for making a “deal” with your child every once in a while. For example, if he (or she) persists in asking you if he can read a book for thirty minutes after bedtime, tell him that you’re willing to make a compromise. Set a timer for 15 minutes instead. This way, everybody is happy.
Stand Your Ground
In the event, your child won’t do as you say when disciplined, stand your ground. If you sound like a “broken record” it’s ok. Really, it is. Sometimes it’s the only thing that works. There’s nothing wrong with being sympathetic and listening to what he has to say. However, if the discussion comes to the point of a standstill, don’t be afraid to firmly end it and walk away.
It’s important to treat your child with respect, even during your most stressful moments. Exhibiting stress allows him to take advantage of the situation and makes things worse instead of better.
Allow Privileges When Earned
At least for the most time, it’s best to only allow privileges when earned. This way, children learn they need to follow the rules in order to take part in activities and get rewarded with some things they ask for. Always reinforce positive behavior as well. This makes children feel good and reminds them they’re on the right track.
Giving children toys or other gifts to get them to act less ungratefully just doesn’t work. In fact, it causes more serious problems.
Focus on Helping Others
When you focus more on helping others, you’ll probably find that your child’s self-centered attitude will improve. Of course, this won’t happen overnight. But, the more helpful children become, the more their outlook on gratefulness changes. As an added benefit, helping others fosters kindness and empathy as well. Both attributes will follow your child to adulthood, and there’s certainly nothing wrong with that.
Child development experts tell us that ungrateful children rarely grow up to be exceedingly selfish or greedy. It’s something that most kids grow out of by the age of 8 or 9. So, there’s no need to panic. The best thing to do is to stay as calm as possible when these situations arise. Be firm and the crisis will pass. Remember, it’s all in a day’s work of a parent.
Ways to Discipline Ungrateful Children
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