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Signs That Your Child Is Being Bullied Online

Cyberbullying is dangerous and can be as harmful as bullying in the schoolyard or the child’s community. Cyberbullying can lead to many problems ranging from depression to anger to a lack of self-esteem. 

Cyberbullying can even lead a child to the point of suicide, a parent’s worst nightmare. 

Before cyberbullying becomes an issue for your child, learn how to detect it and stop it in its tracks.

Depression

Does your child seem depressed for no reason that you can pinpoint? It is possible that they are being bullied online. Would you mind keeping an open dialogue with your child about their feelings and everything going on in their life? This way, if cyberbullying is happening to them, it will feel natural for them to talk about it.

Anger After Internet Use

Don’t jump too quickly to punish and shut down your child’s unexplained anger. It is far more helpful to find out the root cause of it. Let your child know they can confide in you and stay calm during conversations to prove that you are safe for your child to talk to. If your child’s anger seems to flare up after being on the internet, it is a sign that they may be a victim of cyberbullying.

Mentioning the Bullying

If your child mentions any cyberbullying, don’t take it lightly. Remain calm so that your child continues to see you as their advocate, but jump to action immediately. Do what you can to resolve the bullying, and if things cannot be stopped, you may have to make the difficult choice to insist that your child take a break from the activity until things change for their protection. 

If your child has mentioned the bullying, be thankful because most cyberbullying victims don’t let their parents know about it.

Being Secretive about Online Activities

As mentioned, although a few children will talk about online bullying, most keep it a secret from their parents. If your child doesn’t seem to want to talk about their online experiences, make a note of it. If your child quickly shuts down the computer when you enter the room or refuses to respond to your questions about their online activities, dig deeper.

Withdrawing from “Real Life” Friends and Family

Cyberbullying affects every area of a child’s life. One sign it may be happening to your child is withdrawing from their family and friends. When a child’s self-esteem is harmed through cyberbullying, their “real life” relationships will also suffer. This is a clear sign that you need to find out what may be happening online.

Cyberbullying can be difficult to handle because many online users misuse anonymity as a shield to do or say anything without consequence. If you can expose and therefore stop an online bully, do it. If you cannot make it stop, you may have to remove your child from online activities. 

With the help of these tips, you will be able to figure out if your child is the victim of online bullying and put an end to it so that they can get back to a healthy, safe, and happy life.

Signs That Your Child Is Being Bullied Online

Signs That Your Child Is Being Bullied Online

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