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Easy Ways to Instill Your Values in Your Teen

Although in most cases you are a parent to your child from the time your child is a newborn, the teens years are where your child’s values are cemented into them and become a part of them that will continue into their future.

You can do a lot during the teenage years to encourage your child to hold fast to the values you have brought them up with to this point. Here are a few ideas to encourage this.

Continue to Build a Close Relationship between You and Your Child

One of the most important things you can do for your child is to maintain a close relationship with them through these crucial years. Be the listening ear your teenager needs and be their friend and their parent. Spend quality time with them and consider them when deciding.

Practice What You Preach

No child responds well to a hypocrite. If you live one way and tell your child to live another, they will learn from your example rather than your words. If you tell your child to obey the law but text while driving and consistently drive over the speed limit, your child will see through you and learn to disobey the law just as you do.

Don’t Be Pushy

It is difficult to be in when you desperately want your child to inherit your values while trying not to be pushy about it. When you force your thoughts and beliefs on children, they will most often rebel against them and walk away to choose their path. Share your values with your teen, but let them choose their direction.

Provide Structure

Your child may grow up, but they still need basic care to help them do their best. Don’t be heavy with rules, but do still have the important ones in place. Don’t be afraid to say “no” when necessary and be firm about your parenting decisions.

Carefully Choose the People Who Are Around Your Family

It is crucial that you use wisdom when deciding who will influence your child during their younger childhood and teen years. The people you allow around yourself and your child will become a loud voice in their lives. Give this position only to those whom you trust and whose life principles you admire.

Be Calm

Although parenting during the teen years can be quite stressful, try to enjoy the ride. Would you mind not getting so involved in worrying about your child’s future that you forget to enjoy the time you spend with them now? Stay calm and be the most peaceful parent you can be.

Parenting teenagers can be stressful partly because you want your child to grow up to be a decent person who lives by strong values. Sometimes, we can shift the focus from a relationship to pushing our beliefs onto them. 

Be firm, disciplined, consistent, and loving, and you see that your child picks up many of your values simply by seeing you live them. Enjoy these years and watch your child grow to become the wonderful, responsible adult you envision them to be.

Easy Ways to Instill Your Values in Your Teen

Easy Ways to Instill Your Values in Your Teen

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